Advice bbc dating
They’re looking for someone with brown eyes, short hair, between 5’10” and 6′, from west London, and so on. First, they make the writer sound like a control freak.
Second, they sound like an exact description of the writer’s ex.
It’s very unusual for someone to find a good match in their first few attempts.
See it all as experience, not as proof that you’re a loser (or that everyone else is a loser).
Open your mind and your heart to the possibilities for love. Neither of you should see the other as a chief ambassador or racial educator for your group.
Be aware that there may be cultural differences about certain things like flirting. As people of colour, we are very used to being the ones who are discriminated against.
Even if you have a friend of a certain background that doesn’t mind racial ribbing, don’t make assumptions that your date will feel the same way.
Dating can be awkward enough already when dating people from your culture so you can definitely expect awkward moments when bridging ethnicities.