Dating up or down
If is down for us too there is nothing you can do except waiting.Probably the server is overloaded, down or unreachable because of a network problem, outage or a website maintenance is in progress...Walls protect us from having to share the back story. Learning to say yes, no and I don’t want to talk about it can be critical in dating. Sometimes we’re afraid to answer straightforward questions so we avoid getting close to anyone who might ask.If we never get asked the question then we don’t have to explain the answer. This also absolves from having to ask the tough questions as well.Without that expression of love you’re crippling yourself.Be courageous enough to express love and shine your light. Single men and women can find very creative ways to keep others out.
It takes practice and discipline but a wall isn’t necessary.Dating can be scary and love; terrifying yet we’re all going to do it at some point.Instead of avoiding what scares you do more of what delights you.If no bar is displayed for a specific time it means that the service was down and the site was offline.