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"It also shows that they are more concerned with their physical appearance than other aspects of their personality." Reddle agreed, adding, "If a guy is showing off his abs in every photo there is a possibility that besides his dieting and gym life you, will have nothing to talk about." Mary T.Sambrosky, the founder and president of the dating and relationship coaching site Be Plus One, took it a step further.Alex Reddle, online dating expert and chief editor of said "strange" photos should raise red flags.
He wants you to know from the get-go what's important in his life, and that if you hit it off, you'll be fitting in amongst those other priorities as well.While different apps utilize different interfaces, varying requirements for messaging, and range from free to surprisingly expensive, they do share one thing in common: it can be hard to spot both the red flags and the signs someone could be a great match, from the profiles alone. I spoke to online dating and relationship experts as well as people who work for different dating sites to find out how to tell if a guy could be boyfriend material, based on his profile alone.While every dating app is different in terms of how many characters one can use to answer a prompt or provide information, even the most stringent of character limits still allow for complete, polished responses.Megan Murray, senior content strategist and editor-in-chief at Zoosk, told me, "The more a guy invests in his profile ― he adds good photos, his description is filled out, or he's verified his profile using whatever features the site or app you're on has available ― the more invested he is in finding someone who's a good fit for him." She went on to add that people who have more photos tend to spend more time on the site getting to know people, adding, "If someone has just one photo, they just aren't putting as much effort into things." Licensed clinical psychologist Erika Martinez agreed.
She told me, "The best gauge of [whether a man will be engaging on a date] is how attentive he is in completing his profile and the quality of the responses he provides.Low effort here suggests low effort in real life." Along with the amount of effort he put into his profile, look for signs that his personality is shining through. Can you tell right away that he's super passionate about traveling or playing guitar? Venessa Marie Perry, founder and chief relationship strategist at Love Write, told me, "If a guy has a profile that communicates who he is and what he's looking for with a certain amount of humor, he's more likely to be engaging and fun on a date." So skip over the guys with the generic answers and look for the guys who seriously stand out.In addition to seeing his personality shine through in his profile, a picture is worth a thousand words."We found that 'relationship' is the third most popular word men over 50 mention when describing who they're looking for. For younger guys, it's not one of the top 20 phrases but they do still mention it." So believe him when he says he's looking for something serious (and believe him if he says he isn't).