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I am a straight male with a highly stigmatized kink.
I was deeply ashamed of my sexual interest even before my mother discovered my porn when I was 14 and told me I was a pervert that no decent woman would ever want.
at first but—holy moly—the sex got a fuck of a lot better after the wedding," I wrote in my response to IMDONE.
I did allow for the possibility that my sample was skewed; people with good sex lives don't write to tell me everything's fine.
It helped my husband understand himself and his reactions better, and it helped cement the idea of "ours" instead of "yours" as it related to the problems I was dealing with at the time.
That he was willing to see a counselor and work on sex were also good signs.
I imagine you probably don't hear from folks like us because, in addition to being less likely, we don't have much to write in about. Counseling Helped Our Marriage Persist My sex life actually did get better after I married my partner.
I struggled with erectile dysfunction during my courtship with my wife.
If you had known us 25 years ago, Dan, you would not have given us good odds.
To the surprise of no one who has ever given sex advice for a living, the sex didn't get better after IMDONE and her boyfriend got married.