Teen dating advice 20
You’re not.) This is a huge misunderstanding about the word “seduction”. In most cases, they’ll be happy to have someone to talk to.
The art of seduction is not getting women to do what they don’t want to do. As a younger guy, I always expected that if I walked up to a woman and said hi, or asked a woman out on a date, she would get upset, possibly insult me, and possibly cause a scene. As experienced daygame guys will tell you, 99% of women are extremely polite when you open them or ask them out, and are often flattered even if they aren’t attracted to you.
Moreover, some women actually prefer less experienced guys, because they think (rightly or wrongly) that they’re not “players”. In my early twenties as a virgin beta male, I lied to the woman I lost my virginity to and told her I had sex with “ten women” already. This turned her right back on again, and we had sex, and I lost my V-card. I was so ashamed about what I did that it took me many years to actually come clean and tell her she had been my first. If you’re not that experienced, don’t pretend to women that you’re more experienced than you are.
Your guy buddies might give you some shit about it, fine, but women really don’t mind.
If I had known these things back when I was 18 or 22, man, my sex life and relationship life in throughout my 20s would have been completely different. Assuming she’s attracted to you, she wants to fuck you very, very badly, even if she acts like she doesn’t want to and even if she seems to resist sex. The only reason it seems like you are the one who wants it and she does not, is because she’s been trained her entire life to resist her biological urges and to pretend like she doesn’t like sex. It means you stop assuming that you are the one who wants sex more. Women are not going to get mad at you when you open them.
There were some dating books back then, but they were pretty terrible.
Not that I read very many, but the ones I remember taking a look at were dreadfully bad.
Most of you already know I got divorced 9 years later, and I could have avoided a mountain of headaches. Damn, during high school there were swarms of hot girls all over the place, and as a young dumb teenager I just became used to it. Holy crap, was I in for a shock when I left high school and went right into the full-time corporate world!
My world shifted from hot, young, fun, happy high school girls to overweight, angry, jaded, stressed out, over-33 office women.
Divorced or married, it made little difference, these women were radically different than the happy high school girls I was used to. Seriously, going from high school directly into the corporate world was a huge culture shock. In the corporate world, suddenly I heard women talk about how stupid men were and how all men were liars. I had no idea how to dance but I did my best to dance with Darkhair. I was too much of a pussy and didn’t know how to follow through.